Lashon
Hara Part IV
Diseases Of The Tongue
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Leviticus 19:16
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You shall not go about as a talebearer among your people; nor
shall you take a stand against the life of your neighbor: I am the LORD.
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“Lo relech rachil b’ameicha”
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This is a basic prohibition against speaking Lashon Hara - E.
Soloman Torah.org
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Leviticus 19:14 “Lifnel ‘lver lo titen michshol”
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'You shall not curse the deaf, nor put a stumbling block
before the blind, but shall fear your God: I am the LORD.
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One who involves himself in Lashon Hara is helping others to
violate the prohibtions as well. E. Soloman Torah .org
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Deuteronomy
24:9 - “Zachor et asher asa H’Elokeicha l’ Miriam” Deuteronomy 24:8 - “Take
heed concerning the plague of leprosy” because it is a punishment for Lashon
Hara
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"Remember what the LORD your God did to
Miriam on the way when you came out of Egypt
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When
Miriam spoke negatively against her brother Moses, she was afflicted with
tzara’at (Leprosy).
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E.
Soloman Torah.org
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Leviticus 19:18 “V’ahavat l’rei’echa kamocha” 'You shall not
take vengeance, nor bear any grudge against the children of your people, but
you shall love your neighbor as yourself: I am the LORD.
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This is the source of the “do unto other” rule; that we
should treat others the way we would want to be treated. E. Soloman Torah.org
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There are several other commandments that directly address
“gossip”
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Leviticus 25:17-”You shall not wrong one another” which the
Talmud (Bava Metzia 58b) explains that this means saying anything that will
insult or anger someone
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There are several other commandments that directly address
“gossip”
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DeuteronomyDe
19:15 "One witness shall not rise against a man concerning any iniquity or
any sin that he commits; by the mouth of two or three witnesses the matter
shall be established.
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Because,
unlike in a court for monetary matters, the testimony of a solitary witness is
not binding, so that his testimony damages the defendants reputation without
any beneficial result
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Several other commandments are more general, yet in certain
circumstances apply when Lashon Hara(evil speaking) or Rechilut(gossip) is
spoken
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Exodus 23:1- “You shall not utter a false report”.
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Acceptance of a false report also follows from this
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Levitiucs 19:12- “You shall not hate your brother in your
heart”
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referring to contradictory behavior such as acting friendly
but then speaking negatively about him behind his back.
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Leviticus 19:18 - “You shall not take vengeance or bear any
grudge against the children of your people”.
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Such as speaking against someone in anger for something that
was done against the speaker
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Leviticus 19:17-”You shall rebuke you neighbor and you shall
not bear sin because of him” This verse
contains 2 mitzvot:
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Stop someone from speaking Lashon Hara (among other
interpretations), and
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don’t embarrass him in the process.
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Leviticus 19”18 - “Love your neighbor as yourself”
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Numbers 17:5 -”You shall not act similar to Korach and his
company” who sustained a dispute
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Deuteronomy 10:20-”To Him (and by implications his wise ones)
shall you cleave.”
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In
other words-Cleave to God and cleave to those who walk according to His Word.
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Exodus 23:2 - “You shall not follow a multitude to do evil”.
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The previous and above commandments refer to keeping good
company, which includes those who will refrain from improper subjects in their
discussions.
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Six
specific diseases that commonly infect our lives through the misuse of our
tongues can, some cases, be fatal if left unchecked…..
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Excessive
Talking
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Idle
Or Careless Words
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Gossip
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Lying
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Flattery
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Hastiness
Of Speech
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Disease Number One:
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Excessive Talking
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This disease is so common that people accept it as normal
when it is not.
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Proverbs 10:9 ¶ In the multitude of words sin is not lacking,
But he who restrains his lips is wise.
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say something wrong. There
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not alternatives
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We are also warned in the Bible not to use too many words
toward God Himself..
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Ecclesiatstes
5:1-2 Walk prudently when you go to the house of God; and draw near to hear
rather than to give the sacrifice of fools, for they do not know that they do
evil.
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Ec 5:2 Do
not be rash with your mouth, And let not your heart utter anything hastily
before God. For God is in heaven, and you on earth; Therefore let your
words be few.
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Ecc 5:3 For a dream cometh through the multitude of business;
and a fool's voice is known by multitude of words.
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When you hear a person continually talking, you need no other
evidence: that person is a fool
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James 3:8 But no man can tame the tongue. It is an unruly
evil, full of deadly poison.
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Derrick Prince
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People who are always talking are restless people, and our
contemporary culture is filled with them.
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Excessive talking is a sure indication of someone whose heart
is not at rest
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Disease Number Two
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Idle or Careless Words
n In Matthew 12: 36 Yeshua says
n Matt 12:36 "But I say to you that for every idle
word men may speak, they will give account of it in the day of judgment.
n An idle word is anything that does not bring glory and praise to God
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Derrick Prince
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“One
day we are going to have to answer for every word we have spoken. We are going
to have to answer for words that were idle, insincere, that we did not really
mean, that we were not prepared to stand behind, or that were not worked out in
our lives.”
n Matt 5:37 "But let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and your
'No,' 'No.' For whatever is more than these is from the evil one.
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Derrick Prince
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“ That is an astonishing statement, if we say more than we
mean, then the exaggeration (unnecessary emphasis or overdoing) in our speech
comes from the evil one. Let me sum it up in just one simple word of advise
n IF YOU DON’T MEAN IT DON’T SAY IT! IF you follow that one rule,
I promise you, it will change your whole life. You will be a different person.
If you would keep that rule for one year...
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Disease Number Three
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Gossip
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Lev 19:16 'You shall not go about as a talebearer among your
people; nor shall you take a stand against the life of your neighbor: I am the
LORD.
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Going about spreading slander-idle, untrue, exaggerated,
malicious talk - is gossip
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The very title of Ha Satan in the Brit HaDasha, the word
rendered, “devil” means “a slanderer’ in Greek. That is its root meaning and
the main description of Ha Satan in the Bible. If you gossip or tell tales, you
are actually doing Ha Satan’s work for him. You are a representative of Satan
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Not only must we be careful not to give out gossip, we have a
responsibility not to receive (be an accessory to) gossip also.
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Proverbs 18:8 The words of a talebearer are like tasty
trifles, And they go down into the inmost body.
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Pr 20:19 ¶ He who goes about as a talebearer reveals secrets;
Therefore do not associate with one who flatters with his lips.
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Psalm 15:1 ¶ << Psalm of David.>> LORD, who may
abide in Your tabernacle? Who may dwell in Your holy hill?
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2 He who walks
uprightly, And works righteousness, And speaks the truth in his heart;
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3 He who does not backbite with his
tongue, Nor does evil to his neighbor, Nor does he take up a reproach against
his friend;
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There are several requirements for access to God’s presence,
in order to “dwell in His holy hill”
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We must walk with integrity
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We must work righteousness
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We must speak the truth in our hearts
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There are three things we must not do as well
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We must not slander with our tongues
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We must not do evil to our neighbor
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We must not not take up a reproach, or receive a reproach,
against our friends
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because they are poison, and many relationships are poisoned
by
eating them
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Disease Number Four:
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Lying
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Pr 6:16
These six things the LORD hates, Yes, seven are an abomination to Him:
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17 A proud look, A lying tongue, Hands that
shed innocent blood,
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18 A heart that devises wicked plans, Feet
that are swift in running to evil,
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A false witness who speaks lies, And one who sows
discord among brethren.
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Out of those seven specific things that the Lord hates, there
are three that are related to the tongue.
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A lying tongue
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A false witness
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A man who stirs up dissension among brothers
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This is stated again in
Proverbs 12:22
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Pr 12:22 ¶ Lying lips are an abomination to the LORD, But
those who deal truthfully are His delight.
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The Lord “DETESTS” lying lips
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The Lord “DELIGHTS” in truthfulness
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THERE IS NO IN BETWEEN-EVERY LIE COMES FROM HA SATAN
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John 8:44 "You are of your father the devil, and the
desires of your father you want to do. He was a murderer from the beginning,
and does not stand in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he
speaks a lie, he speaks from his own resources, for he is a liar and the father
of it.
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Every
time a lie passes through our lips, it comes from the devil
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Derrick Prince
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“One more very important, frightening fact about the disease
of lying is that unless the disease is
arrested and healed, it is fatal
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Re 21:8
"But the cowardly, unbelieving, abominable, murderers, sexually immoral,
sorcerers, idolaters, and all liars shall have their part in the lake
which burns with fire and brimstone, which is the second death."
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Rev 22:15 But outside are dogs and sorcerers and sexually
immoral and murderers and idolaters, and whoever loves and practices
a lie. (those who love to lie)
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Strongs Greek - Lie
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5574. qeudomai pseudomai,
psyoo'-dom-ahee
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middle voice of an apparently primary verb; to utter an
untruth or attempt to deceive by falsehood:--falsely, lie.
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Disease Number Five:
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Flattery
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Ps 12:1
¶ <<To the Chief Musician. On an eight-stringed harp. A Psalm of
David.>> Help, LORD, for the godly man ceases! For the faithful disappear
from among the sons of men.
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2 -They speak idly everyone with his neighbor;
With flattering
lips and a double heart they speak.
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3 May
the LORD cut off all flattering lips, And the tongue that speaks proud things,
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In this Scripture, David is speaking about a state of moral
decline in the human race.
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Pr 26:28 ¶ A lying tongue hates those who are crushed by it,
And a flattering mouth works ruin.
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If we listen to and
receive flattery, or if we become flatterers, the end is ruin
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Pr 29:5 ¶ A man who flatters his neighbor Spreads a net for
his feet.
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Flatterer-Websters 1828 Dictionary
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FLAT'TERER, n. One who flatters; a fawner; a wheedler; one
who praises another, with a view to please him, to gain his favor, or to
accomplish some purpose.
There are people who will speak
falttering words, but they are
not sincere. There is another motive behind
it.
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Disease Number Six:
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Hastiness Of Speech
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Pr 29:20 ¶ Do you see a man hasty in his words? There is more
hope for a fool than for him.
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Example- Moses
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of speaking to it. That act of disobedience expressed in hasty words, cost him
the priviledge of leading the children of Israel into the Promised Land
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Ps 106:32 They angered Him also at the waters of strife, So
that it went ill with Moses on account of them;
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33 Because they rebelled
against His Spirit, So that he spoke rashly with his lips.
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“A provoked spirit causes us to speak unadvisedly with our
lips, and these hasty words cost us many privileges and blessings. If Moses had to pay that price for that one
hasty statement, let us beware that we do not also say things hastily which
will cost us dearly in the spiritual realm”-Derrick Prince
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We need
to “Repent” of these 6 Diseases of the Tongue and “Wash Our Hands’ of them
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Next Week
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The Roof Of The Problem-Our Hearts